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Cedar's avatar

The first thing I thought of was of the way governments, charities, and health care "systems" tend to position neurodivergent people as pitiful victims and themselves as saviours when in fact they're often perpetrating or perpetuating the harm by the systems they built and maintain.

I learned a lot from your YouTube video on this! 🫶

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Donna McArthur's avatar

It makes my brain and heart hurt to think about this triangle! Thanks for the great info.

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Ellie Dee's avatar

This was exactly my reaction at first. It does make a lot of sense when you dive into it and I'm constantly fascinated by the complex games we play on a subconscious level, trying to meet our needs.

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Donna McArthur's avatar

Me too. I'm happy to live at this time in history where it's become ok to explore these things out loud and receive tools for change.

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Süreyya Ibrahim's avatar

This Drama Triangle certainly makes a lot of sense in so many ways. During arguments with my husband, I recognise that I constantly shift from victim, persecutor and rescuer. What I haven’t yet figured out is to escape the Drama Triangle.

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