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Donna McArthur's avatar

This is fascinating and very helpful. First there’s the reminder to park our judgements at the door because we can never know what is in someone else’s mind and heart. Next it’s interesting to examine what may need to be taken away in order to stop feeding the monster, both in myself and others.

The dance of the archetypes is endless. I’d love to see you two amazing beings write more on this.

Thanks for another great essay!

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Nancy Thompson's avatar

Thanks for this. I think for me I needed to first recognise that I have historically been trauma bonded to those who crap on me & my ideas. Awareness of this bond/behaviour pattern has better enabled me to step away from certain people's negativity, as well as to feel compassione towards such folk. As you succinctly point out, negativity usually comes from a place of unhappiness.

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